Infertility: urban women's hiding something

a group of figures are shocking: 20 years ago, the population of childbearing age in the infertility rate was only 3%, the world at a low level.Today, the national average of every 8 couples of childbearing age 1 in the confusion facing fertility, infertility rate rose to 12%, close to the European and American developed countries.In other words, our rate of infertility in 20 years, a full quadrupled.

Behind the figures is a picture of helplessness and anxiety in the face.May not careful attention, you hardly recognize them from the side couples with fertility confusion, but in fact, they bear the pain was unspeakable and unforgettable.

From a medical point of view, infertility is that normal couples do not take any contraceptive measures in the case, still not pregnant within a year.Experts said that the general phenomenon of delayed marriage and childbearing, poor modern way of life, the tremendous work pressure and growing environmental pollution, is caused by rapidly rising rates of infertility the main reason.

I have two children to give up the opportunity to

Readme people: Saly, 35 years old, foreign managers

If God give me another chance, let me again to choose between a career and children, I think I will not hesitate to choose the child.But five years ago, I made a most regret in this life decision.

I have 25 years old when Graduation, and finally into the now the only foreign company, just their ambitions, have a bright future.I am 26 years old and when the President of University Teachers married, can be described as smooth sailing.But the child did not take long to abruptly come.My husband and I unanimously decided at that time: to the cause as the most important of all, to forego childbearing.I endured great pain, made abortion.

30 years old, I was finally coming to a department manager position.To this day, I often work late into the night, paid extraordinary efforts.Just as the department manager, I can not relax even more, because I know and further is opened up, take a step back to make a comeback can be difficult.Happens at this time, I was unexpectedly pregnant.This time I did not find talked with hesitation, I went to the hospital for surgery alone.Lying on the operating table, I thought to myself: it no longer forbear two years.

Another two years, I finally feel like everything is ready, working capability, but also bought a new house, you can meet the little life came.But to wait two years, the stomach was stirring not.I went to the hospital, the result was diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes.Since then, my life becomes a constantly on the hospital, only to spend a lot of money, but also by a lot of crime.Earlier this year, holding the last hope, I accept the artificial insemination, and the children still did not come.

has comforted me, saying that to have children does not matter.5 years ago can be thought of that decision, I just regret dead.

Comments: In general, the best women of reproductive age between 25 to 28 years old.More than 28 years of age, female cells in the body after a peak, with age, declining quality of ovulation, making significant fertility decline.

Infertility now showing a characteristic: the proportion of abortion lead to infertility on the rise because of more post-abortion complications, coupled with the lack of good rest, so the chance of infection increases.Moreover, older pregnant women has greatly increased risk of miscarriage.According to statistics, 30, about 15% of pregnant women will experience abortion, while 40-year-old pregnant women, this risk is as high as 25%.

Nightlife are to blame

Bio by: Lele, 38, TV director

First married to her and her husband said not to have children being good.Remember that under our bedroom dresser glass pressing such a week of Activities: Monday tutorial in English, go to the gym or bowling on Tuesday and Wednesday concerts and the movies, theater, or go shopping for beauty on Thursday, Friday friends gathering or party, Saturday, Sunday driving outings.Such a rich life, where accommodate the child?

Because of their work, I often stay up all night, so that gradually developed a bad habit of smoking and drinking coffee.Now my daily amount of smoking around a pack, smoked for a full 15 years.Coffee drink to me like the same day, do not drink any body.And, because every night to go out late night, my weight soared to 70 kilograms, and my head is only 1 meter 63.

Exciting nightlife is not always brought me great.30 years old my husband and I started to think a child can be also conceived a child but not on the old.Last resort, by a friend to see the doctor, the doctor said to me: obesity, smoking, drinking coffee, quit your day these will be pregnant someday.According to the doctor, I try to do it, can be used for so many years of life, is not one or two days of the change.

Well, my husband said, we will go back when a dink it.

Comments: Modern medical research shows that obese women can cause amenorrhea, irregular menstruation and infertility.According to statistics, the previous menstrual period after normal and abnormal obese women, secondary amenorrhea, menstruation and other scarce or excessive rate was 50%, infertility rates by 18.5%, higher than the average 8.5% age Women 11.5%.Obese women is not only difficult to conceive and pregnancy after obstetric complications is greater.Obesity caused by pregnancy-induced hypertension, macrosomia, placental abruption, uterine dystocia, and the incidence of fetal death are much higher than normal weight women.According to the American Journal of Reproductive Medicine, a study, caffeine can cause increased umbilical artery resistance.This means reduced umbilical artery blood flow, fetal nutrient and oxygen supply may be affected.This finding may explain why coffee, pregnant women may cause miscarriage or infant weight loss.Oxford Family Planning Association on 17 000 women of childbearing age to 11 years, the Institute concluded that smoking reduces fertility, more than 10 cigarettes a day smoking rate was 10.7% in infertile women.Only 5.4% of women not smoking.The other investigation that the smoking and non smoking women compared to women suffering from infertility 2.7 times more likely; if both spouses are smokers, then the woman infertile couples more likely than non-smokers with high 5.3 times.

The responsibility of the family line, like a mountain

Bio by: huei, 29 years old, secondary school teachers

My husband and I are high school students, talked about love a full 8 years.2002 New Year's Day, we got married.I feel extremely happy and fully intend to immediately when the mother.But after a year or so, my stomach did not see movement.And her husband discuss later, we both went to the hospital.

The beginning, did not detect any problems.May be pregnant or not, finally found out the problem to me.The doctor said, I do not ovulate, for many reasons: poor tubal, luteal phase defect, progesterone is low.In order to conceive a child, I began to receive drug treatment.Those days, I eat a lot of medicine, but not only not pregnant, but my normal endocrine disruption, let me miserable.Spent 2 million yuan, to no avail.Later the doctor told me that the only way is to take promising artificial insemination.But the high cost so we can not afford, I had to choose to give up treatment.Relatives and friends learned the news, talking about the more pressure we have.

Husband is an only child at home, the old people think that the family line is his bounden duty.Although we were very good relationship, but I still feel a burden to him.Treatment did not result, the cost is a bottomless pit, I have no confidence in marriage more and more, so the wound and initiate the divorce.My husband does not agree, he said no children have a happy life, let me think again.The more he advised me that, the more I feel a little uneasy.He is also in favor of his parents divorce, the family also has mortgage, I do not want to give him additional burden for medical treatment.If ever cure, how to explain to the elderly?

Comments: Among the many reasons for infertility, in addition to physiological reasons, there are psychological reasons can not be ignored.The study has confirmed Neuroendocrinology.Long-term anxiety, depression or fear, anxiety and other adverse psychological factors stimulation, the brain may be passed through the nerves, after a series of reactions that ultimately make it difficult to conceive of women.

Adverse psychological factors that come from life and work pressure.For example, the responsibility of the traditional Chinese family line; another example, many smart women to give birth to a beautiful baby, the pregnancy was too well prepared to increase the psychological burden, the results really had the time to pregnancy, but not on the children conceived.

Editor: infertility, it reminds me of Charlotte in Sex and the City turn, as a scholar.You can choose a lifetime not to have children, but if it is because the kind of objective reasons of God were deprived of their right to raise, how should you want to do?

(Editor: Liang Liying)