Do not ignore the BABYSEX

China psychological Introduction: born the day, our small Baby have belonged to him (her) own sex, he will grow up, he will enjoy happiness, it may have been sexually hurt...If you want your baby is always so happy, then do not ignore BABY SEX, only sex education to Health to him as soon as possible, to make your baby an early age to enjoy the most perfect life.

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PART1: talking about sex truth

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Wenwen Mom: One day, my 3-year-old son and his cousin hid in the room, naked, two people do not know doing.This matter and saw the children grandfather, furious, cursed grandson is a"rogue".

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Mom: I once with 2-year-old son for a walk in the garden in the city, suddenly squatted down to son, from a woman's skirt below the point of view,"Hush" out to him,"do not sound ring to his son to hold up and fled.Unexpectedly, the son of interest from Ms.skirts, see aunt wearing a skirt would have to rush to see what happens.

the toot father: Kindergarten teacher a straight face said to me,"Your son is simply a 'little goat'" when I really want to find a seam drilling.This kid in kindergarten nap, lying on a small bed to play a small penis, and also closed his eyes, blushed, like masturbation, like.

Zhenzhen mother: our Family Zhenzhen just go to sleep at night or in the morning just to wake up in recENT months, often suddenly thighs folder too tightly.Repeated"rubbing action" orgasm, just as we adults.

Usually we mENTioned the words"sex" is always linked and"sex", while ignoring the other"sex" content, so when your Baby has any of the above, we tend to overwhelmed, which aspects of our own doing something wrong to let your baby learn to these?

In fact, a person from birth to adult, has a developmENTal process of physically and psychologically.In this process, the psychology and physiology of development throughout.As our social moral norms.Therefore, we talk about sex Baby, always evasive, dissemble, lie and deceive the attitude, in fact, was a normal physiological phenomenon, is also a psychological phenomenon, and taken care of the baby living adequate care is very necessary.The same time, is also a social phenomenon, each of us from birth began to accept all kinds of information, and then gradually to confirm their gender and sexual roles.

PART2: the Baby's psychological developmENT course

Only by understanding the Baby psychological developmENT process, we have a way to distinguish between the baby's behavior is normal, also the only way to correctly guide the baby, so he (she) knows the truth about sex, sexual pleasure.

0-3 years old Baby psychological developmENT of table

mouth To 0-8 months

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performance and resolution: the Baby's lips and mouth with a strong pleasure parts of the lips feeling extremely keen, when the mother's nipple occurred in contact occasion, baby will feel extremely pleasant.

you can do: You can hug the child in his arms, while feeding, gENTly shake the beat, crooning whisper; when the children found the mouth can bring their happy, he would finger and could get to things that are put to the mouth, even if they can not eat, will bring them joy, this feeling of pleasure can not be forced deprivation.

anal For the period: 1 year and a half years

performance and resolution: this period, the excretion of the main aspects of the activities became a children pleasure.1-year-old girl when urinating often laugh, boys more attENTion to the pleasure of creating actual action when urinating.

you can do: parENTs to gradually guide the children to learn to control urine excretion to the toilet or spittoon, do not let it free, otherwise he will lose the real satisfaction, grow up on their own self-control, Success For would all be affected.Parents to be patient, and pleasant to educate them.

penis worship period: 3 years old

performance and resolution: this period, young children will find the best physical sense is that the reproductive organs.Early childhood is a period of drastic change in life, is a strong period of early childhood curiosity, is that they try to separate the stage, however, tend to be subject to parENTal depression, prohibition or punishment stage.

you can do: When children touching their own genitals, many parENTs will sternly rebuked, This will cause the child to develop feelings of guilt for sexual organs, parents should guide their children, like to talk about other organ in a calm attitude to tell them the name of the various parts of the body, so that he know how useful these are physically indispensable parts, we must learn to love and protect them.In addition, can be used to tell stories, or do games and other methods to transfer the child's attention.

PART3: Baby SEX ultimate declassified

When we know the truth of Baby physiological and psychological developmENT, we should use what kind of attitude, what kind of method to guide the baby? to solve our own problems.

dear, let us first form a united front

you and your husband's views are not always the same - you are at home, and everyone together to talk about issues, while he was at home, and never talk about the issues - how to solve you on this issue.inconsistENT?

to teach children about sexual knowledge is the responsibilities of both parENTs.Children need to learn about sex knowledge from his father and mother.However, in many families with children about sexual problems seems to be the mother's responsibility.Understanding about sexual issues is beneficial for children from both parents.In this way can make the child know, in your home is an open discussion of the topic, but will they know whether the man or woman can talk about this issue.

is better than precept

In fact, for a person, he (she) accepted by the early adoption of non-verbal, informal way sex education is often the most important, and is a lifetime benefit or victimization (if that inappropriate early sexual sterility , it may be harming a lifetime).

infant sex education, the most important after the birth of the Baby to begin the Newborn baby as a baby boy or baby girl to be nurturing, to determine the child's"role".Gender differENTiation, for infants only have biological significance, but the baby is in accordance with the code of conduct of the boy's upbringing, or in accordance with the code of conduct of the girl's upbringing, which has a certain sociological sense.

teaching by example codes of practice in

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1.name: Do not give the girl from the boy's name, nor give the boys from the women's name.

2.toys: when choosing toys to note that the characteristics of boys and girls.

women deal with the problem often by the left and right brain at the same time issued a directive to direct the action, is a"hybrid" of the brain.While men are right-brain developed.Therefore, it is recommended that the Baby's parENTs should consider when choosing toys to contribute to the development of the toys of his left brain, such as the emphasis on language training, figures, and logical analysis; choosing toys to the baby girl, may wish to consider whether contribute to the development of her toys in the right hemisphere, such as increasing the imagination, a sense of space.

3.Apparel: Do not often worn to the child does not meet his/her gender clothing.

color: color and sexual oriENTation.Children in room layout for boys, blue, green, brown, gray and other colors can be considered when buying toys or clothing, while girls tend to red, yellow and other colors.For purple, orange, and other neutral colors.

game: every Family almost every child to experience the game.ParENTs should be based on the child's gender in the game to teach children to play the right role, such as the boy played the father, the girl played the mother.If the children to do this game, you watch in the next, can also guide your child in a timely manner a father should be how a mother should be how.

learning: Generally speaking, music, dance and the expertise of the girls, boxing, martial arts boys opt.If you do not want to let his son grow up to be a"sissy" from childhood you have to cultivate his manly features; Similarly, if you desire his daughter grow up gENTle, virtuous, do not let her learn the boys project.

7.feeding: usually, the boys pay more attENTion to protein intake, which helps him strong and robust; girls pay more attention to fruits and vitamin absorption, which would make her beautiful.

8.complimENT: to praise the girls to use the beautiful, quiet words; boys can be handsome, handsome and other words.

look for teachable momENTs

sex education experts believe that life"teachable momENT" and"golden opportunity" to the practice of sex education to children, far better than waiting for children to carry out a"serious conversation" the role.You can find very easy opportunity to ask questions.

If you take a 3-year-old children saw a pregnant women in the park or shops, you can tell him:"aunt who was pregnant, have a Baby in the belly, in her body called local growth of the uterus.

understand children's needs

find out the child in various stages of developmENT really want to ask you what the problem is it is very important to clarify the child's problem is also very important.Parents and children understand the deviation in the exchange often happen, you want to use the vocabulary and concepts for your child's level of development.The children are concrete thinkers, their abstract thinking skills to young people during a certain period can be developed.

3-year-old child asked his father:"Dad, I come from?" the father of the child thought it would be a good time for sex education for children, so were the"birth" a very long and very detailed description.The results of the little boy interrupted him saying:"No, father, Daniel said she is from Beijing, I would like to know that I come from?"

In fact, you will find that if you give children too much, said he would be reluctant to listen to or began to fidget.If you pay attENTion to the child action implied by the signal, you'll know what you have said enough.

teach you a trick: try to give children the most simple explanation, if the child looks on the interest or ask more questions, you then tend to give more complex information.If you have a three-year-old child in your bed to see a condom ask you:"Mom, what?" You try to give him a simple answer:"This is a condom."If he continues to ask:" It is used to do?"You can say:" Because your father and I love you very much, so we decided not to have more children.Condoms can help us do this.Most of the 3-year-old children would be satisfied with this answer...So, to answer the child's problem, please make a decision based on the child's reaction.

PART4: exam site

no matter what we prepared for how full, or there will be a lot of embarrassmENT to happen, so we have to accumulate some practical experience to cope with the Baby there is always a situation in oh

situation:"I come from?"

try to say to him (her):"Do you see the sunflower seeds? seed is sunflower children.Whether plant or human, a child grow up, children, and small plants will not have children.Girl grew up, the belly of a child growth house, called the uterus, the boy had grown up in his scrotum (balls), a large group of sperm (seed), if these seeds were sENT to the woman's vagina hit the eggs, they went to the womb of life.Them together, the longer the time after 10 months, it grew to be a child born by the mother.

situation II: Baby hit sex

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children back to my room and tell him you'll be in the past, ask what he saw, if he said he saw the two of you to hurt each other, can tell he is not, you are in love.Then remind the knock on the door after him into the others room.Do not have to worry too much, the children will not be an experience scared.However, the future still have to pay attENTion.

situation: Baby say"sexy" these words

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children will often hear from the media, they also engage in to understand what is meant vocabulary hanging in the mouth.When he (she) asked:"sexy What does it mean?" You boldly tell him (her):"sexy adults used to describe another that they find attractive adults, but that word is not can be used to describe children, the child is best not to say the word.

Situation Four: Baby playing small penis

Baby took his"small penis", and laughed artlessness.At this time, please remain calm.I believe that many parENTs in the child playing with their genitals, have had the feeling of anxiety.But at least you should do to"remain calm".You have to understand: when children begin to explore their bodies for them to touch and discover their genitals like to touch and discover their fingers, toes and stomach as natural as long as you correctly told him, that is the solution of urine"small penis" touch to touch the dirty will get sick, love the clean, eye protection to protect it.Children with diapers or wear a full-crotch pants, will reduce the opportunities for children to play sexual organs.

situation: children just like adults, hugging, kissing

two-year-old after the child is full of desire to explore.Children between the sometimes embraced each other, kissing each other to climb to the other's body, and each other to watch the genitals, this does not need to fuss.If you immediately jumped to scold him (her), the child will feel wronged, because children do these things, and not as we want so complicated, just need a way to express the friendly with each other.Facts have proved that the game between homosexual or heterosexual children will not have a negative impact on sexual developmENT in the future.So, let it go.

However, children in the game following bad behavior of parENTs is necessary and timely to correct:

1.boy forced Grilled see girls reproductive organs;

2 boys, girls and boys and girls play the role of husband and wife in the living;

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boys with a single girl or girl living with a single boy performing couples;

4 boys and girls play a husband and wife roles, fear of others to see, it seems that they are doing a shameful thing.

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situation: children see their parENTs naked?

many psychiatrists believe that children before the 10, 11-year-old in an appropriate environmENT (such as bedrooms and bathrooms) to see their parents naked is harmless.The researchers suggested that a small child with the opposite sex partners or parents with bath method to solve these problems What is the difference between man and woman before the age of 4.

http://www.psychcn.com/enpsy/201202/1649461083.shtml

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