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in the end what kind of education, the Baby can accept, and do not listen a little better than he intended breaking things, good words spoken do not listen, make your call, and threaten it, a little effect, but can not always be so! Hope you mom Weapon!
headstrong is often the result of parENTs spoiled Baby crying, temper to achieve their own goals.At this time parents should adhere to principles on to meet the vexatious will not succeed.Parents in disciplining the baby should be put on a caring attitude, try to reason things out for the baby.Should not have beaten the baby, it would hurt the baby's self-esteem, resulting in an indelible imprint. 1, parENTs can make use of diversionary methods, use of Baby things like decentralized baby's attention.Do not compromise to the baby, with the first, there will be a second, the passage of time, your baby will become increasingly wayward. 2, the appropriate punishmENT: after the Baby is crying, the baby has been calm, and take the initiative to curry favor with, parents should deliberately remain indifferent to the baby.Let the baby aware of their own words and deeds of the parents happy, and then explain to the baby sense baby guarantee will no longer be so wayward crying. , and guide the Baby to do role-playing games to overcome the wayward problems. encourage Baby to use language to express.When the baby reasonable demands of language, parENTs should be appropriate to give satisfaction, but with wayward crying expression, even if it is reasonable request, but also failed to meet. parENTs from a young age to stand a few rules for the Baby, do immediately give praise, so that the baby know how to play by the rules more effective, more liked than crying, the baby has been repeatedly experience will be able to gradually overcome the wayward diseases. is not the elderly are especially loved children? Mom and Dad or posturing, reasoning, education. mixed with a cop a mixed white face, there must be rules before the adults lead by example and have a good education praise him, as long as he does not fall on the boast.Not fall on the boast that my Baby certainly will not be breaking things... see how the Baby is, if you also threw things around once we should give him a powerful, otherwise the skin is not afraid not know the Baby of your home unhappy cry at what a few examples of the following can help you 1, to persuade Case: quarrel with their peers, to snatch toys... way: put down the work at hand, and wENT to the child beside him, and let the child know that you're attention and concern; and then ask the child dispute, the quarrel, and patiently listening to the child's mind; to encourage children to beat.The snatch is not correct behavior and attitudes, and asked the child to learn to say please, thank you, sorry. Recommendation: not a lot of sound to suppress or threat to children; not directly pull the child, and then yelled at the child is not; words avoid hurt children's self-esteem heart. 2, a fine ride case: constant arguing, arguing... way: put in the penalty on a cushion or a chair can be a name; ready alarm clock or clock and timing penalty minutes. recommends that the: penalties location errors on the door, not too obvious place; limit punishmENT time, or let the children speak punishment long time; punishment after, let the children say the punishment today. help with the housework case: graffiti, litter, toys... : Prepare a rag, broom, pot cleaning utensils, children learn to clean up and develop clean habits. suggestions: ParENTs should pay attention to children's safety; small children by parents to lead the housework; train the child to develop the habits of the things owned by the original; the child is asked in to help the Family learn. , painting case: like the curse, grasping, kicking, biting and other little tricks. way: according to the circumstances of families, placed in a fixed at a small table (This PunishmENT table is is usually best not to use desk, dining table, guest table, etc., so that the children used in the future of the tables, generate fear, fear, psychological); prepare an album and a different color of the brush, let the children draw, write the idea in mind. Recommendation: When the children were injured, deal with the injured area and then punished; children will draw it occurred at a time and the wrong things; adults to control their emotions, can be learned from the children's paintings, the children mistakes psychological ideas; art therapy, compared with no injury to the child self-esteem. 5, left standing case: deliberately jump from a height, run and jump on board. way: planning at home a penalty area, a name, place to rely on the walls, errors mainly on the door; the ground covered with cushions; prepare a clock or alarm clock, timing the child's punishmENT time. recommends: location of punishmENT should not be too obvious or is on the door, so as not to hurt the child self-esteem; speak punishment should not be too long time with their children, otherwise it will create more naughty children of the opposite effect; depending on the height of the child to decide the mat height; punishment after asking the child to be punished because, let the children know the wrong. 6, reading, writing case: the tendency to violence, lying, pilfering... way: choose a fixed punishmENT area covered cushion or placed a small table; put in the penalty area inside the pencil, drawing paper, colored pencils, story books, color paper...; let the children first to write or read a book.to resolve child anger. Recommendation: not immediately lay down their work can be called the children to reflect on the punishmENT District; Do not rage against the child's first isolation and the children, to ease each other's emotions; emotional calm, asking the child to make mistakes motivation. 7, confiscation of the favorite things case: constant arguing, litter, do not accept toys... way: children littered items be confiscated as a punishmENT. the recommendations: first lay down the work at hand, and wENT to the child beside him, let the children know the mother is paying attention to and concern; tell the kids to throw the items away, stop the noise, or they will be punished; and let the children say out why the mistakes, and her mother angry. row of beans case: the patiENT and lack of litter. way: Prepare a box, plate, red, green and other colored beads inside, a few plastic jar; children in the penalty table, the various colors of beads, placed in the correct position. Recommendation: If the child is very rebellious, as the case for the child to modify to handle, can be left standing, fine to sit again punishmENT; the purpose of training children to develop the habits of the things owned by the original; can be trained to hand-eye coordination, the ability to distinguish; finished, let the children know the reasons for punishment. 9, the prohibition of certain rights to require case: do not like brushing your teeth, picky eaters, litter... way: kids love to eat, loves to play something to temporarily prohibit touching, as a punishmENT. Recommendation: not loud threats, and angry attitude on the child; let the children know the reasons for prohibiting these rights, when the child when the future performance of the good, the restoration of their rights. Note implemENTation of the punishment: key: to grasp the principle to control their emotions In addition, the experts also said that children growing up, which inevitably makes mistakes, whether inadvertENTly or deliberately, when parents need to pay attention to some things in the punishment of children, in order to avoid adverse sequelae. security issues, the punishmENT items material to avoid too hard; 2, to control their emotional responses; the location of the punishmENT should be selected is not obvious, is not correct place on the door, to avoid injury to the child self-esteem; attENTion to the wording, tone, not the discourse of threats, intimidation on the child; penalties contENT thoroughly implemented, not tolerance, compromise; 6, after punishmENT, to appease the child, let him know the parents of his concern and care. After the punishmENT, parents must give children a hug, this embrace let children know you love him, make him a little more understanding and respect for the punishment of the adult. , baby, cases, cushion, the child know that parents, rules, adults, the child is asked, the door, throw something
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