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less than a three-year-old children, the old love and human confrontation, said a top one, playing what he must fight back, how can I teach the dear child?
after 1-year-old, the Baby slowly produce an independENT self-consciousness, he was able to grasp their own to do what you want will naturally stick to their claims.This segment period baby are doing does not take into account the requirements of adults, often do something unreasonable or dangerous thing, baby did not know how common sense, lack of ability to distinguish, so parents tend to the baby's behavior will be to stop, or to do for the baby.Such adults a variety of intervention will be and the baby's requirements conflict, the baby will not to resist. Baby often say no when? First, adults interrupted he is doing something he likes or game, the additional requiremENTs, the baby would immediately say no; adults take the initiative to request baby while the baby habitually say; adults to stop the baby's misconduct or unsafe act due to an unknown thing, he will say.Therefore, we must learn to say no because of the baby and said, in what situations can be targeted to make the appropriate countermeasures. In the first case, if the Baby is playing in Hing head when you want to abort the adults in advance hello, as we prepare to go home, you stop playing for a while, playing for a while, we have to eat.Due to time constraints, we can more easily interrupt the joy of the baby in front.Of course, it is possible even in advance to play a greeting, to allow the baby to play for a while, but he is still to listen, but to say no.The next time you make the necessary coercive measures, and on baby, it is reasonable and necessary.Because doing so makes the baby slowly to understand: to adults or to listen to, and not ENTirely by their own. In the second case, adults who completed or with Baby things in the everyday life, adults should not be directly told what to do, this will cause the baby to say no conditioned reflex, but to learn how to use the game flexible way to transfer attENTion, etc., both to avoid the baby say, perhaps unwittingly meet and reach adult behavior and requirements.Her asking her to get dressed, not directly, said:, dress it! Can say: baby bell game, if a long needle has not come here, put on your clothes, then you win.In another example, baby do not want other people's toys back to others, not directly: the toy back to the others! Can say: baby, we go to certain places to play, the toys of others not brought.This treatment, and perhaps the effect would have been better. For the third case, on the one hand, to concisely reason; the other hand, must be resolutely stopped, regardless of the requiremENTs of the Baby no matter how strong, how say the word but also decisively to stop. Lastly, pay attENTion to the front of ten million is not Baby talk old baby say, a discussion on strengthening the baby's not even he felt he would say very proud.Many of the bad habits of the baby did not initially dilute inadvertently strengthen the results, parents should pay attention to. said a top one, beat also about your training, how can we blame the child? (1) less criticism or condemnation statemENT, switch to discuss the attitude, consult the tone cordial and sincere conversation and the child, the child How can there be a backlash? Way of the of ② circus tamer is to fight to do an action, and then feed him a food, the child is not a beast, he did not want to be called and redeemed on the original price refund, very reasonable! is the parENTs usually send their children to the spoiled child is still small be corrected, the parents have enough patience! 2-year-old child to a rebellious stage, their psychological based on self-cENTered and like to do some exaggerated behavior to attract attention, happy to do the confrontational behavior; when the child suddenly felt grown up like adults, what hands - do not like others to help her through;; this time the child's psychological special needs respect, is an equal respect, so they do not like to be directed, beck and call; you call her go East, she was to go West.2-year-olds will suddenly very sticky adults, fear of losing the closest person to suddenly need a lot of the parents' sense of security.This time the Baby severe emotional, volatile.In two extreme swing, he will: - do not; OK - I can not; some babies are also difficult to accept new things, not eaten the food, not through the new clothes he not old, he was familiar with something has to give him a sense of security. psychological view of the above, give parENTs some suggestions: 1.more freedom, more than a little love! (Less disturbed, less interference) rebellious children like to explore and advENTure, as she thought of what can be done so we should give her some more free space to allow her to go to practice, and less disturb, less interference; In addition, because of her psychological seemingly independent, in fact, badly in need of parental care and love a little bit, she is quite sensitive, even less than before.So, this short period of time, our parents often embrace stroked the child, pro-child, she often felt a deep long love of Mom and Dad; ease with the help of her emotions and temper. 2.multiple-choice questions instead of command, the next command. If you want your Baby to do things a taboo issue a command such as: baby toys packed! We eat! This baby will not listen to or more toys are still all over the floor.Can try to be gENTle with the baby: baby, we continue to play with toys or eat your favorite XXX? Given the opportunity to choose equal give respect, the children will be heard not only by the fall, and she will think about her choice. 3.eat hard food soft - bear in mind to avoid disrupting the parENT-child relationship If the child is disobediENT or doing wrong things, parents can not be given severe punishment or criticism and hit the child, because she's fault is due to the rebellion of psychological cause, not intentionally wrong so everything can be forgiven.Do not avoid this time hitting the children, if you hit a child her rebellion will be more enhanced, and let her have thought Mom and Dad do not love her not her idea.This situation will become increasingly serious to affect the parent-child relationship.With love to warm the child's fragile mental to the child that the parents' tolerance and understanding of the most important.If necessary, can take the cold treatment, children separated from one side to let the children and their respective calm down. 4.diversionary Baby wayward temper of the time can take advantage of the method to divert attENTion, her attention shifted to other places, to avoid trying to find fault in a matter. 5.parENTs do not really need to have children gas to control their emotions face rebellious child can not control their emotions, or appeared and started to criticize him or throw him into a dark room, bathroom, these acts will only strengthen the child's rebellion; in fact, to relax, to break the Baby a cup temporarily as a small thing can silence him up, his emotions when told him the things he did hold him dangerous.ParENTs do control a good example of the good mood from their parents baby will gradually learn how to control their emotions. your Baby to participate in more activities psychological for his little adults, the mother can try to let your Baby do something he never did housework; best to let him participate in some activities, such as children gathering, early education programs can help children release energy, improve mood. rebellious behavior symptoms usually last three to six months or so, this time, everything returned to normal. tolerance, patience, love and freedom is the rebellion of the most effective drug. child is still small, to be patiENT education.Do not hurry, Destructive Enthusiasm. he does not apologize, and explain his own ideas, have their own personality, which is a good thing it ask you for some think they do the right thing Tao Qian.child in this age there are many not understand something in his level, he may consider the matter as he is, he need to apologize.knowledge is slowly learning, slowly experiencing a lot of things to learn, a lot of things are not born to do parENTs must patience, guidance slowly and do not let him not apologize even if you can use some examples to guide him so that the child will correct growth. If you preposterously forced to apologize to him, one is likely to cause the child is not satisfied, emotionally disgruntled, two if he was obediENT to apologize, but my heart refuses to accept that such children, the future will be not assertive. children or to slowly develop, can not be Jia. I think he is the lack of playmates, he is to invite you to play with , baby, adults, parents, emotional, rebellious psychology, this time, control their own need for parents to
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