When a marriage of poor sales

This is a rich material life of the times, brought a cycle of excess, slow-moving merchandise was left, and emotionally in the marriage of poor sales people have been left out.

"When men and marriage, a girl, once married," seems to be the last of the old concept of modern society,"never make do" attitude was more acceptable to young men and women, therefore, a group of"singles" was a bit awkward and sarcastic title of"feeling left", which means the competition leading to the marriage, was left out.But if you want to truly become a"left men left women", it must have the following elemENTs: most of them, looks are impeccable, at present, this"army" is the unprecedented rapid rate of & ldquo ; rise", according to the relevant data, 2009, in Beijing, had been left with 500,000 women; and now, that number will more no less.

reason for causing this phenomenon, one of the confusion over marriage.Do not know what they want, do not know what kind of object is really for you.This is the choice of modern society, more and more closely related.Society progresses, each person's choice and a big, young people want to continue to find their satisfaction with the choice of the other half, insist that he (she) himself in a place of waiting and began a dedicated search.Described as"no trace of her thousands of Baidu, the man always out why the lights dim?"Second, and more independENT on women in modern society.Although many men and women have no time to look for the cause of love, which eventually led into a"left men left women" instances, but in this context, it is caused by women is growing,"left" reasons.Marriageable age for many women, are excellent career gamble when they do not want to take on household responsibilities because to give up the pursuit of career, so unwittingly became the"Woman & rdquo ;, described as"the end does not regret pine wide, busy people become emaciated." Men do, on the one hand do not want to look better than they are women, or feel hurt"big man" in the face, or feel pressure, not catch, but the other hand, they do not want to look tacky than their own woman, over time become a"man left." Fourth, and sex is becoming more open about, we do not rush into marriage, marriage, life in the proportion of people down.Of course, there are a lot of"men and women left left" because of delays down the psychological problems of their own, such as too highly of themselves, over the pursuit of perfection; too low self-esteem; grow up, always just under the shadow of their parents as a & ldquo ; good boy"; even some people are afraid of marriage, became the" Fear of Marriage Family."

course, in a marriage, the age of their independence, is the last to ENTer the marriage hall, modern men and women have to say"no" to the right, but psychological research has found that if has continued the"left men left women" living and ultimately different from ordinary people to bear the psychological pressure.After all, sexual gratification is a human instinct, a Family is the everlasting theme of human society..Otherwise, extremes meet, will result in the distortion of the soul.And as opposed to"left male" and"Woman" to bear more pressure, more vulnerable to psychological crisis, because they are over 28 years even if the"left", while men can be tolerated to 35 years old.In such a long time under pressure, to their physical, psychological, career, family, will bring unimaginable damage.

In fact, in the end who is the final winner, not necessarily only you know! ▲