"Little Three" forum lively comparable series

[Evening News],"Little Three" forum series comparable to exciting first wife --- a third party and Competition on the Internet get together

following the recENT Beijing Evening News,"Little Three" phenomenon and the"mini three Forum" on my interview.

[Evening News],"Little Three" forum series comparable to exciting first wife --- a third party and Competition on the Internet get together

"I am a Primary Three I afraid of?"

"dry line love line, be a good primary three."

"with one hand and her husband, on the one hand a third party, one can not fall, and their battle of wits, Doo Yong, fighting hard."

"third party, you have to think one day you will be old, you will also be other small three or four to get rid of the small, why bother difficult for a woman woman?"

these"shocking quotes" from the momENT the recent popular"mini three Forum", a small three self-pity or aggressive, well-meaning wife buckled and is now comparable to the online interpretation of a drama & ldquo ; good show."

emergence of the Forum had raging undercurrENT of"Little Three" has finally surfaced, and its membership is still straight up, similar sites and forums are one after another.

experts believe that the"mini three forums," reflects modern man's psychological difficulties, reflecting the various troubled marriage and love, to a certain extENT, the parties through the vent to relieve the emotional pressure to talk, but it has could be a"psychological ink", the negative effects of psychological spread to the community, affecting more people.Experts suggest that similar sites need to have legal expertise in psychology and human intervention.

illustrations Yi Shanshan

Forum Created by

"Little Three" into a social problem

majority of primary three extreme

"made since the primary three after that, a life in pain, the pain piercing, only the really experienced people who can understand.Then I figured out completely is impossible with him together.He told his wife will not divorce, no feelings, but I fall again and again, deeper and deeper......"This is a" little three"in the forums of the confession.

reporters here a lot of"little three" post found, though often justifiably plausible"Little Three", but most of the"mini three" very painful.A girl said that he had been innocENT conduct, in full knowledge of the feelings with a married man, to understand the truth until after the have been unable to extricate themselves; a lot of people want to get rid of the"mini three" status, but knew not how to to come out; Some girls have been waiting for a man so many years, men have gradually cooled the enthusiasm of the original......the forum these"oral Record" Let the people on the"Little Three" have a more realistic understanding.

first"mini three forums," the creator of the"new life" is a boy who just graduated from university, had to write a paper on marriage laws, the Internet search data, found that many families were third party damage, was very despised the"mini three." But having read the story and the emotional blog mini three, the third phenomenon has become a deeply social issue, so do e-commerce work, he created the"mini three forums."

"forum since its establishmENT, we have been persuaded back to more than 10 girls to commit suicide."In his view, the primary three are also very painful, has been suppressed, easy to extremes."They took extreme psychological, it is easy to hurt yourself or others, give them a forum to vent the space."

Primary Three

stunning"righting Guide"

Forum striking at the mark of"concern about the phenomenon of third parties to build a harmonious Family" slogan, but the forum also often emerge"dissonance", many of the"Little Three" to promote a high-profile kind of"organization finally found" feeling, the same experiences and distress so that they produce a strong response, and then start another,"Weapon", and so it was a"mini three cENTralizer guide","teach you how to successfully host"This post, which is the" mini three forum"where the most outside criticism, accused of providing to a third party" exchange experience"of the place.

almost all the"mini three" are anxious to get rid of the idENTity of this disgraceful, but out of the way many are staggering, some proclaiming"breaking through the way" in earnest on the first wife first wife, said:"You're not losing the third, but love"; there's desperation to break out of this feeling, do not hesitate to give someone else,"mistress."

marriage relationship problems of the psychological experts, national secondary counselors Dusheng Xiang pointed out that third parties do need psychological help, but the differENT opinions of the site, we uncompromising, and some move is inevitable" Hunzhao"or even" Sunzhao."

he thinks this site has a"double-edged sword" effect, on the one hand, it is the"vENT pool," so people put all kinds of"psychological garbage" and"psychological ink" dumping here , being the spirit, easy and mitigation; but on the other hand, these"rubbish" and"ink" will pollute the surrounding crowd, and even pollution society.

Dusheng Xiang told reporters that a third party out of the emotional dilemma, simply to listen and comfort has no function, at least in need of professional consultants in the course of several months to talk with the advice twENTy times."Little Three" forum for exchange of their medical treatment through the psychological trauma, feelings of relief sought is not the reality.

wife

jar launched"Marriage Battle"

addition to the"mini three have something to say," first wife are, of course have more to say, the forum"PK little three" plate tear the story, as much as romance drama, how to defend love, how to beat the third such post everywhere, click-through rate is very high.

reporters found that wives of the"Battle of marriage" has taken a differENT approach, some claim the"strike hard", openly call for"third party across the street, people cry,"" Severe primary three, like the black car chased crackdown, vendors,"" and the days of fighting, and ground fighting, with the small three measures of fun!"Slogan, or even someone in the forum chosen way bitch squalling catharsis; some favor a" close watch on her husband", the methods include" timely and detailed full control of her husband's cash balance"......

such a"defense of marriage" will get what kind of victories, really can overcome the"mini three" win back the husband? Du Shengxiang that many of the forum to teach the so-called"experience" is actually not desirable, intelligENT wife, the most important thing is to master the skills of communication in marriage, do not blame on the mistakes of her husband to suppress, but to restrain emotions, with treat him love and tenderness to be possible to pull him back, otherwise it will backfire.

experts

urgENT need for psychological assistance to legal support

"mini three forum" is always filled with countless stories and are saying, that someone brilliantly summed up as"do not let it go - the pain! Let go - and more pain!"This is the" Little Three"is the ultimate anguish of wives.Dusheng Xiang said the"mini three phenomena" as"three people caught in a quagmire, the final will be black and blue, no one will be happy."

"Little Three" phenomenon has profound social and economic reasons, one from a psychological point of view, men looking for"Little Three" also has its psychological basis to follow.Du Shengxiang said, he passed a large number of cases and years of research and consultation found that many men had a sort of affair"emotional filter" phenomenon, that is, to find his wife or"Little Three" are the same type of woman When, after his wife get older, and a similar but much younger wife, the"Little Three" to become the alternative to hope that men do not want to face the reality of emotion through the"filter" I just want to leave those beautiful experience.There are men because of childhood experiences and other reasons, a"complex nursing","teacher complex" and other psychological tendencies, it is easy to be attracted to such women derailed.Husband, wife, thoroughly understand the psychological reasons for derailmENT, we go the right remedy.

"mini three forums," the emergence of such a feeling that society needs the export of certain social groups need help.Du Shengxiang proposal has some expertise in human psychology involved in the operation of the site, for members to provide some common sense psychology and psychological assistance.

Similarly, the legal support is also a lot of struggle in the"mini three forums" in the people needed, the reporter saw many people asking:"My husband extramarital affairs, I want a divorce, how to acquire property for compensation?"" My husband was having an affair, divorced his wife in the case is not how the rights?"" Mini three children after inheritance it?"" The wife the right to recover her husband to the small three '青春损失费' it?"These issues really need professional legal person over to help.

reporter's notes

"mini three culture" bud

challenges social bottom line

said, many people see the"mini three forums," the first response was,"Why do such a thing regardless of the Public Security Bureau?"Public Security Bureau Online supervisor sector response was:" We really can stop this thing."If the site did not discuss the" pornography, gambling, Drugs", but only to discuss feelings, to not illegal.

it's not"ban" from the side that the social media environmENT is becoming relaxed, social status and people's emotions are becoming more diverse, on the contrary to traditional moral society but also the people and things not all were vocal, but to give them a chance to speak and rights.

However, the reality is not that simple, see if the unscrupulous to say:"mini three has been a lot of fun living the lazy way out for rich women, the burden is small, fast transition."" Mini three less investmENT and quick, energetic, refers to where to play where."" Our little third is not afraid of the shoes...barefoot..."and even the new" mini three Forum"began to explore the" mini three charm"to guide how to dress dress mini three , the man grabbed the hand.Journalists were"Ray was outside the coke in the tender," have to say that traditional moral bottom line is being challenged.

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, envious onlookers booing and who won the"mini three culture" seems to be sprouting people by not worry, this non-mainstream values ​​may be spread tolerance and understanding through open, Finally, social and Family can cause great harm.

who is paying attENTion to this thing do?

reporter Peng