Interpersonal unhealthy psychological

the interpersonal relationships all the time is not engaged in the interaction between people, believe that pleasure is the yearning of each person.But the desire is always better, in reality, will always be some discordant contacts state, and even the developmENT of the psychological barriers of interpersonal communication, take a look at the contents of the following:

1.suspicious

poor interpersonal relationships in a psychological quality, can be said that an eclipse of the tree of friendship insects.As the British philosopher Francis Bacon said:"suspicious of the heart like a bat, it always took off in the evening.This feeling is a fan trap, and is chaotic mind.It allows you to fall into confusion, confusing friend and foe, in order to destroy the cause of the people."Paranoid psychology of people, often the first to be set subjectively others their dissatisfaction, and then looking for evidence of life.With a beggar-thy-neighbor psychological inevitable to impose the fabricated facts, and even other people's good intENTions misinterpreted as malicious.This is a narrow, one-sided, a blind unfounded imagine.

2.Jealousy

Spanish writer race Vance said:"jealousy is always observed with a telescope all the telescope small objects larger Shorty into a giant, doubt become a reality."Envy is linked with their stronger than the kind of people were dissatisfied and unhappy, loss, hatred, and even with the risk of a destructive emotion, is by contrast with others, while generated a negative state of mind.When people who have some connection with their superior position or achievemENTs, have given rise to a hate psychological; when the other side facing into the disaster, standing on the sidelines, and rejoiced; even with the rumor, slander, and mistreatment.make trouble and other means to belittle others to comfort themselves.

as Hegel says:"there is jealousy they can not complete the great cause, as far as possible to underestimate the greatness of others, to belittle other people's great makes with his own Qi.Characteristics of jealousy is targeted - with their associated persons; reciprocity - often their career level, similar age and over their own people; latENT - most jealous lurking deep, reflecting the more secretive behavior.

.Own

only care about individual needs, to emphasize their feelings.interpersonal defiant.Regardless of settings will meet with their peers, unhappy temper tantrums is a brighter future, happy, dancing about happy, totally do not consider other people's emotions and attitudes of others.In addition, the relationship between themselves and others overestimate each other's intimacy, to say something should not speak.Such overly intimate behavior, but will make for psychosocial prevENTion with them alienated.

4.Inferiority

American psychologist studies have shown that childhood the activities of the achievemENTs to be recognized by teachers, parents and peers, support and praise, will enhance their self-confidence, curiosity, inside a happy and fulfilled, it will develop good habits of a studious.Instead, they will have a sense of frustration and inferiority.Individual inferiority complex formation is mainly the result of long-term effects of social environment.The shallow feelings of low self-esteem is that people look down on yourself, and deep understanding of their own look down on themselves, namely, lack of confidence.

5.Interference

psychology study found that everyone needs is not a violations of living space; Likewise, everyone also need to have a self-psychological space.Then close friends, but also the individual's inner secret, there is a reluctance to candidly reveal to others the inner world.Some people to get along, but likes to ask, inquire about the spread of the private affairs of others, such a person interested in snooping others, does not necessarily have any practical purpose, only the psychological satisfaction of low-level spying on other people