"Fence" dependent personality

"fence" dependENT personality

vegetation season is getting stronger, the wind-swept pastures of the natural scene delightful.But in the crowd, the wind blows to relENT, the"fence" to free people to be met.This person's hateful lies,"Where the wind blows side, started for which side down", and whether they are both ways of the villain, or the lack of backbone of parrot who always gives the feeling of duplicity, History Sangui is such an obvious"fence."

"duckweed would drift, because the foundation is not strong enough self."In an interview, Beijing Anding Hospital, handsome psychiatrist Dr.West told the Life Times reporter," the fence"nature in psychology there is a proper noun is called," dependENT personality", if in serious condition bring serious damage to social relationships, emotional depression or anxiety, can be regarded as dependent personality disorder.Mental Disorders in the U.S.Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, summarizes several major features of such a person: 1.Can not be determined from the others.For example, some people have not collected the hundreds of recommendations, did not dare to start a relationship.2.Often feel helpless.As some mantra is"how to do." 3.Fear of being abandoned.Knowingly wrong, but also echo, or condescend to others.

West handsome that dependENT personality formation and the parents too"strong" parenting related.What is the doting parents of a type of all agents, the results of children deprived of opportunities for self-growth; the other is the authoritative parents asked their children to"go wherever", virtually the child to strengthen the"not himself" concept.Growing up, such a person will encounter problems in the habit of"borrowing" solution, a"who's who heard strong," the snobbish response mode.

"So, the child born, the parENTs love to give him one hundred percent.Every year it is necessary to withdraw 5%.Wait until age 20, although not accompanied by tangible love about the kids, but will the power into their own, they will learn to self-support and self care."West handsome, if a more serious problem, you need professional guidance in the psychiatrist, the gradual rebuilding of confidence, self-awareness system.▲

(Zhou Libo)