Cover up the idea of ​​living children

Tags: do with his will, ideas, toys, children   (View   ID:534687)
grab the toy nursing toy Baby a year and a half, began to have some awareness of interaction with other children, often some thing.As a mother, I still lack experience in this area, and sometimes often hovering between the pipe and no matter to find such an article, a little useful, and you moms to share, but then again, at the last minute, my mother is still to be flexible processing ^ - ^ (either when the mother is not easy to have to learn, can not book worship)

from an educational point of view to consider: children get along with others, parENTs of non-interference in the best, otherwise the child will be hovering between the ideas of their own ideas and their parents, the child's actions shall not be unified with the idea, that is, the child can not follow their own ideas to do something, the parents will cover up the child self-motivation, if you frequently, the children there will be a variety of problems in the future to deal with things.we look at the ** woman actually loves her husband, but she used to love the way are not up to her thinking, such as the quarrel would say divorce, but in fact her heart do not want a divorce, this is the actions and ideas can not be the causes of a unified, the root is that too many restrictions on her childhood, parENTs, and to suppress the child's behavior and ideas, or too much of parents The idea to cover up the child's self-awareness.

so your child will like see you smile, because he did not complete the task you give, but in fact he did not want to deal with things as you will, but you are a mother, no way, he had to deal with things the way you like, but unfortunately only to cover up their own ideas.

considered from a physiological point of view: the child can not protect their own toys, instructions did not establish a good contact between the children with the outside world (toys), the kids do not know the significance of this toy, your child some independENT idea of ​​repressed or parents in the past life good intentions to replace the solution is to give children full freedom of autonomy, and educational point of view to consider the views of the same.

so I recommended that you do not interfere with children and others is how exchanges, they do not what happened, they do not fight, let the children figure out how to get along with others, respect for children believe that children can face the problem independENT, would not always interfere with the child, to give children full liberty, slowly, the child's thoughts and actions have been unified, the various aspects of the problem will be solved.(Free to children, autonomy can solve the education of more than N)

 

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